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Bill was talking about various recent sexual abuse scandals and was comparing the complaints made against Michael Jackson to complaints made against various Catholic priests with the aim of suggesting that what Michael allegedly did to his victims was gentle compared to the treatment received by victims of the priests.
Seemingly out of nowhere, he started talking about a time when he was a child and was rather viciously beaten up during an incident of playground bullying.
However, I'm quite confident that it will never go away entirely.
It seems to me that bullying is just one of those things that are just a part of human nature.
Bullying Causes Long-Term Emotional Damage The experience of being bullied can end up causing lasting damage to victims.
This is both self-evident, and also supported by an increasing body of research.
The comment resonated with me, probably because like Bill, I too was bullied as a kid, and also found the experience to be pretty ugly.In this spirit, I offer my self-disclosure (and hijack Bill's) as seed for discussion.There are lots of programs designed to help schools and other institutions prevent bullying.In making the second statement I'm suggesting that ring-leader bullies (those who organize bullying) are behaving as though the emotional and physical health of their victims is not important or is at least less important than their own desire for the thrill of aggression and dominance.
Narcissists treat other people as though they were objects either to be used, or discarded, and the bully both uses his victim (for purposes of self-gratification and aggrandizement) and then discards him.
Instead, children need to be held in line with what amount to incentives (and sometimes punishments) for acting as though other people matter.