Sample dating game questions
This could be telling as to their teens or even early twenties and where they were emotionally and mentally. What is the nicest or worst thing you did for a very good friend? This is going to tell you what they value in a partner as well, after all most good lasting relationships start with friendship first. Most of us do not think that tomorrow or the next day may be the last day for us and did we accomplish what we should have, did we treat people with love and kindness. This is a good question as it can give you a glimpse into their idea of what is important in their life at this point in time. This will allow you to know how they look at life as a whole if it is answered truthfully. This is actually a good question as it might give insight into something they find offensive for a personal reason, maybe they had a family who committed suicide or battled weight issues. This is going to allow you to understand how they see people, do they get to know them first before passing judgement or are they quick to judge. If you knew that in one year you would die suddenly, would you change anything about the way you are now living? This question is interesting; do they live life or just go through the motions? This will tell you if they are overly emotional or maybe they hold back their feelings some. What roles do love and affection play in your life? An interesting question but could show you an insight into their ideology and outlook on life. What, if anything, is too serious to be joked about?
Maybe it’s Halloween, Thanksgiving or Christmas, be sure to ask why. Will just being there help or will you need something more. A glimpse at what they really think is important when it comes to luxuries or material items. What is the wackiest gift you have ever received or given someone? The willingness of an answer on this shows you they have some amount of trust in you. This allows you to glimpse into their personal preferences, there is no right or wrong answer here unless you have tattoos or body piercings that they cannot accept about you. This one can tell you a couple of things, first do they fall in and out of love easily and second are they afraid of commitment. This will tell you how they handle anger, stress, and what they use as a way to resolve it. A glimpse of how they see themselves in life and what they wish to achieve. If you found a briefcase of money on the street, would you keep it? You should be able to tell if they are extremely prideful or maybe they lack belief in their own worth. What’s the length of your longest romantic relationship? While being impulsive can be fun, it can also lead to disastrous financial problems if they are too impulsive when making purchases. Have you ever hit the person you have been involved with? This can tell you what they take seriously and don’t take seriously. This is also a good one, we all deal with stress differently, some exercise, some meditate, some hold it inside until they erupt. What is your favorite way of spending time with me? If they admit they would drive buzzed, you don’t want to ride with them. Camping with family, summer camp, swimming at the Y tells you a little a bit about the way they grew up.
Drugs, alcohol, gambling, and well you get the idea. What do you consider the five biggest strengths of your personality? You shouldn’t drink and drive so the next question is will you do it again? If you have been on a date or two and they start talking marriage, that is fast and you may wish to slow that down. What did you do during the summers when you were growing up? This will tell you if they see everything as a competition they need to win 51. This tells you if they prefer lots of people or alone time with you. This will let you know if you like the same kind of movies, action, drama, comedy. This will tell you what they are interested in, fame, inventing things, teaching others, helping others such as doctors or EMTs, firemen, policemen.